Bacula, gossip, advice

This sounds like when I was at my previous employer and they asked if I could develop a web-based system to take surveys. I nearly said, "yes" because, well, I know perl, I know CGI, and I could do it. However, I was smart enough to say "no, but surveymonkey.com will do it for cheap." Best of all it was self-service and the HR person was able to do it entirely without me. If I had said I could write such a program, it would have been days of back-and-forth changes which would have driven me crazy. Instead, she was happy to be empowered to do it herself. In fact, doing it herself without any help became a feather in her cap.

The lesson I learned is that "can I do it?" includes "do I want to do it?". If I can do something but don't want to, the answer is, "No, I don't know how" not "I know how but don't want to". The first makes you look like you know your limits. The latter sounds like you are just being difficult.