Is that what happened?

But when the open space opening the next day had an anecdote featuring "ops guys", I'd had enough. I went up, took the mic, and told the audience of several hundred people (of whom perhaps 98% were guys) how erased I feel when I hear that.

I said what I always think (and sometimes say) when this comes up. If you are a guy, and you like to date women, would you place a personal ad that says this? "I'd like to meet a wonderful guy to fall in love and spend my life with. This guy must like long walks on the beach and holding hands, and must also be female." If that sounds ludicrous to you, then you don't actually think "guy" is gender-neutral.

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